Editorâ€™s Note: Today, we continue our series â€œHonoring the Women of Afghanistan,â€ by posting the essay, â€œThe Invisible Women of Afghanistan,â€ by the Pax Populi Scholar, Shogofa.Â She has been a steady, relentless advocate for the advancement of education for the girls and women of Afghanistan. Here she reflects on how the lack of education is a kind of darkness that keeps women stuck in a perpetual early and dark century in which woman are separate and invisible. Shogofa affirms that both men and women need education if Afghanistan is going to move beyond this long period of darkness and flourish.
Shogofaâ€™s call, â€œNow it is time to change the conditions for women in Afghanistan â€” now it is time for educating Afghan women.,â€ reminds me of the extraordinarily powerful words of Martin Luther Kingâ€™s â€œI Have a Dreamâ€ speech in which he stated, â€œNow is the time to open the doors of opportunity to all of Godâ€™s children. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood.â€Â
Yes, for all those who care about Afghanistan, now is the time to put an end to the long night of war that has caused so much suffering to so many people.Â Instead, let us take the required steps to build a strong and beautiful Afghanistan by recognizing the equal value of men and women and their shared need for education.Â
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Today is International Womenâ€™s Day and I am thinking about women in Afghanistan and how they will celebrate this day. Will they get flowers and gifts from their husbands and sons because it is Womenâ€™s Day? Will any men appreciate their hard work?Â Â Although most women do not have access to work outside of their homes, their work should be appreciated for the beauty and value it brings to family life. But, I know that except for some educated women, most people in Afghanistan donâ€™t know about International Womenâ€™s Day, and the contributions of women will go unappreciated.
Personally I wish all Afghan women a happy International Womenâ€™s Day and I am very proud of them. This is the day when people all over the world celebrate womenâ€™s achievements, politically, socially and economically. In some countries women are getting their rights and using these to bring positive changes to their countries and communities. Other countries, like Afghanistan, are lagging.
War in Afghanistan is like a big puzzle, and after so many years, it is getting hard to put all the pieces together, because we are forgetting that a big part of the solution is womenâ€™s education.Â Without it, there will be no equality of men and women and the puzzle will remain in pieces. If men and women work together, we can fix many of the problems that lead to war. But many oppose this, and so women not only have less access to education, they are afraid to gain knowledge.
Sadly, strangers will abuse the vulnerable women in Afghanistan who are still struggling and begging on the street. Â And still we do not know the value of women and keep them away from education and their rights. Our prolonged civil war and lack of education has made them invisible.
Now it is time to change the conditions for women in Afghanistan â€” now it is time for educating Afghan women. Let them stand beside men and help each other, because men and women are like two wings, only together can we fly. We should get up, see the world and learn from it. Â As long as we continue to fight and kill, we will still be living in the first century.
Afghan women have played very important roles in Afghan society as mothers, sisters, and wives: As mothers they raise their children and make them ready for society, as sisters, they hold the hands of their brothers and sisters to support them, and as wives, they stand by their husbands to make successful families. If we have successful families we can have a successful society and country.Â We will do this together, men and women, working to build Afghanistan.
Farida Maqsudi · October 7, 2013 at 5:20 am
I do appreciate your worthy words and I am proud of you!
Ted Achilles · March 10, 2013 at 1:27 pm
The clarity of your thoughts and the absolutely beautiful use of the language you are so clearly mastering bring great pride to your Baba Ted. Your strength and your determination and your persistence will bring you, all your family and your Afghan sisters amazing rewards in the years ahead. Your mother would be ever so proud. So am I. BT .
Stephen Landrigan · March 10, 2013 at 10:27 am
I look forward to the day when you become Afghanistan’s Minister of Education. Insh’allah.
Qais Akbar Omar · March 10, 2013 at 10:19 am
I’m very proud of you, Shogofa Jan, for being the voice of the voiceless.
Z Bahman · March 10, 2013 at 3:16 am
Shogofa jan, well done. Great to see you writing and doing so well. Zuhra Bahman
Peggy Kelsey · March 9, 2013 at 10:47 pm